Sometimes, when your passion is something a little less conventional, like lets say...paranormal investigating.. it can be hard to remain passionate in the face of criticism, ridicule and partners who may be telling you to "get a grip" on reality.
Sometimes you can start to believe that you are not chasing ghosts but your own shadow, spending hours away from home, buying equipment that sparkles and shines only to realise that other people in other teams have more sparklier and shinier equipment - or worse still...nicer looking T shirts and logos!
So thats when you have to REMIND yourself of why you are doing all of this - what led you down this path in the first place?
Was it really to impress other people in a jazzy T shirt with the newest piece of equipment or was it because you had a burning question about the mysteries of life that just needed to be answered.
Remember to:
Keep grounded and remember that this world is the one where you currently keep your stuff, therefore it ALWAYS takes first priority over any other world that might appear more interesting. Don't let the world of ghosts take over.
Smile at those that may scoff at your "funny" hobby.
Be serious and use the best equipment that you can afford but dont spend next week's grocery money on that new camera if it means you cant pay your bills.
Libraries are free the last time I was there, and that was only last week - so borrow books.
Buy second hand books or download articles and follow your favorite writers and make yourself knowledgeable about your favorite subjects.
Stay open minded.
The worst things is to be inflexible when new information arises that can ADD to your knowledge.
Dont dismiss it just because it doesnt fit with your preconceived beliefs.
Sometimes you need to take a break
Sometimes you might need to step back..even if its just to look back and see how far you have come.
But always question..why am I doing this?
Do I still get pleasure out of it.
I am enjoying the experience and meeting people that add value to my life?
If you are then keep it up and enjoy it.
Dont be afraid to be passionate about what brings you joy, even if everyone else might think you are slightly crazy.
The world needs more passionate people.
Sometimes you can start to believe that you are not chasing ghosts but your own shadow, spending hours away from home, buying equipment that sparkles and shines only to realise that other people in other teams have more sparklier and shinier equipment - or worse still...nicer looking T shirts and logos!
So thats when you have to REMIND yourself of why you are doing all of this - what led you down this path in the first place?
Was it really to impress other people in a jazzy T shirt with the newest piece of equipment or was it because you had a burning question about the mysteries of life that just needed to be answered.
Remember to:
Keep grounded and remember that this world is the one where you currently keep your stuff, therefore it ALWAYS takes first priority over any other world that might appear more interesting. Don't let the world of ghosts take over.
Smile at those that may scoff at your "funny" hobby.
Be serious and use the best equipment that you can afford but dont spend next week's grocery money on that new camera if it means you cant pay your bills.
Libraries are free the last time I was there, and that was only last week - so borrow books.
Buy second hand books or download articles and follow your favorite writers and make yourself knowledgeable about your favorite subjects.
Stay open minded.
The worst things is to be inflexible when new information arises that can ADD to your knowledge.
Dont dismiss it just because it doesnt fit with your preconceived beliefs.
Sometimes you need to take a break
Sometimes you might need to step back..even if its just to look back and see how far you have come.
But always question..why am I doing this?
Do I still get pleasure out of it.
I am enjoying the experience and meeting people that add value to my life?
If you are then keep it up and enjoy it.
Dont be afraid to be passionate about what brings you joy, even if everyone else might think you are slightly crazy.
The world needs more passionate people.
Renata.
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